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After using the information on this site I took a letter into a local dentist explaining my situation. It really has been a turning point in my life as my serious problems are now fixed (including 8 extractions in one visit). I can't say I "enjoy" going to the dentist but my dental surgeon is aware of my fears and they're always taken into account. Thanks beyondfear.org and onewoodstreet.net

K Swindon, England

I am terrified of the Dentist got by it for a while but it is back and I know I need work done the last thing I want is a Dentist who lectures me just do the work and put my mind at ease

June Dublin, Ireland

Thank you so much Andy. The day after I spoke to you I went to the dental surgery and talked to receptionist and made an appointment for a chat with dentist the following week. (that was 2 weeks ago). The day arrived and I practiced the technique you told me to do and I actually sat in the chair and told him everything. I ended up having x-rays, charts done, etc. The outcome is I am having me top 4 front teeth re-crowned and other bits and pieces. I think an extraction is on the cards but my dentist said we would deal with that at a later stage. Well, if that wasnt enough, three days later an abscess flared up and I ended up going back and getting antibiotics, etc. (thats the one that will be coming out methinks). Next thursday (14th) is my 1 and a half hour appointment to do 2 of the crowns. Still nervous, but determined to do it. Once again, thanks so much for your help. This webste is a godsend.
ps. the half a stone in weight that I lost through sheer anxiety is now back on! Rather that than feel as distressed as I did.

Susie Tunbridge Wells,

Hi is there any one out there who lives in norwich who knows where i can go for treatment with some one who has a caring nature? I shake as i write this note hoping that know one reply then i wont have to go!!!!!!!!!!!!! But i do need help

debbie graham norwich, norfolk

I could never have gone to the dentist without the support of this site.After 25 years of not going I am now in the middle of treatment with a very nice dentist called Linda.
This site is a godsend to all dental phobics - fabulous work Andy.

Pat warrington, cheshire

I cannot recommend this site enough. It has been like changing for me. The support has been invaluable.
I am now receiving dental treatment and i can't believe how far ive come with the support of this site. I never thought it possible. For the past 5 years i have suffered with anxiety and panic due to my dental phobia. I used to read the success stories and never imagined i would be one of them.

Melanie H Yorkshire, Uk

Thank you, thank you, thank you..... After so many years of suffering with my phobia, I found this site, inspired by the experiences of others, I used the letter on this site, contacted a few dentists in my local area.... unfortunately no one offers IV sedation in this area, however, but I'm full of confidence... with the aid of some Valium or half a bottle of wine :-) I've an appointment with a lovely dentist, who I've chatted to on the phone......I just hope I can make it through the door

Angela Edinburgh, Lothian

What a wonderful site, it's great to know that there are other people out there with the same fears and worries.I finally went to the dentist last week after raging toothache and lots of tears/sleepless nights. I had not been for 20 years and was terribly ashamed and absolutely terrified. My fear and shame was so bad i would walk out of a room if someone started talking about dentists, I couldnt even make the phone call to make an appointment- but I was put at ease straight away by the dentist and before I knew it I was in the chair !.I had to have the painful tooth extracted but was told that my teeth were no where near as bad as I had thought - the black which I thought was decay was in fact stains from 20 years of tea and coffee drinking- these can be removed by the hygenist which I am going back to see. I can't believe that things were not as bad as I thought and my fear was more in the anticipation of the visit rather than actually being there it's giving me back my confidence to smile again .After reading this site I can only add that for those who have avoided the dentist for 10years or so things have changed so much it doesn't have to be a painful experience ,making the initial move was the hardest - things aren't always as bad as we think .

Lois Newport, Gwent

Thank you so much for this site, like many people have said I thought I was the only one who felt this much fear even at the though of going near a dentist. At 24 i have 3 broken teeth, and many more breaking up. I cant sleep at night for feeling so ashamed of how bad ive let it get, and havnt been to a dentist in 7 years. I think i could cope with a dentist who could offer sedation. But have had problems finding one in my area. If anyone know a good understanding dentist who can offer sedation in the central scotland area please contact me and let me know.
Thanks in advance
paulg81@blueyonder.co.uk

Paul Edinburgh, UK

I today visited my dentist after a break of 22 months and think I will require extensive work. Can anyone give me information or advise if they have been overseas for cosmetic dentistry/treatment?

Anne Burton Runcorn, Cheshire

I had not been to the dentist for 8 years, just kept putting it off and was ashamed of my teeth. I finally plucked up the courage and have just finished my treatment, it is such a relief to not have to worry about what my teeth look like. I can not stop smiling, I would say to everyone out there who is putting it off to go to the dentist asap, it may not be as bad as you think. I thought all of my teeth were terrible but in the end i just needed a good clean and my teeth are looking so much better.

karen stroud, glos

Literally about to go to the dentist to have 2 teeth pulled out, one of which is broken... my heart is pumping about a million time faster than usual, I can't stop fidgeting and my hands are pouring with sweat, think the second I see my mum (who I am dragging with me regardless of my age!) I will start crying.... and I've already taken a tranquilisor!!! ARGH!! Excellent dentist I go to though, Southernhay Dental Practice in Exeter highly recommended to anyone in this area. I am just SO SCARED but there is nothing I can do but go and get it done. Hopefully in 60 minutes time it'll be over and I'll just have two red gaps in my gums for a few months (even though I'm 22, the teeth being pulled out are baby teeth!!) Excellent website though, thanks for all the comments and things that made me realise I aint alone!
Fingers crossed...think I am going to puke...

Cate Exeter, Devon

Thanks so much for this web page. Your hints on how to survive the chair helped me tremendously. Still only half way through my treatment but I will go back and complete it!! Thanks again.

Eileen Leyland, Lancashire

I must admit that I found this site by mistake but this is a great site!!! I wish more people will invest their time to build sites like this one. Thank you

Enaken , NA

THANKS TO SHIRLEY FROM BASINGSTOKE I WISH U WELL I STILL CANT EVEN THINK OF GOING TO DENTIST EVEN IF I COULD FIND AND AFFORD ONE HAVE RECENTLY BEEN OFF WORK AS MY FACE WAS THAT SWOLLEN DUE TO TOOTH PROBLEMS SOMETIMES I WISH MYSELF DEAD I KNOW THAT SOUNDS DRAMATIC BUT I REALLY DO

CATH RUNCORN, CHESHIRE

What a excellent website,with so much great information! As an Oral and IV Sedation Dentist,we help so many patients who can not have their needed dental care completed any other way. I do understand my fearful patients concerns,as I too was afraid to go to the dentist as a child. All my appointments as a child were done without any numbing at all. Keep up the great work with this website,and help spread the word that there is help for apprehensive and phobic dental patients. Dr. Ron

Dr.Ron Briglia West Chester, Pennsylvania USA

Cath from runcorn, I too am a registered nurse with a dental phobia, I have now found a dentist who was happy to listen to me. I had a consultation first, then a check up and then xrays this has all taken 8 weeks I have built up a relationship with him and today I had my first treatment for 40years. I was very nervous but now feel that I can continue with my treatment and get my confidence and my smile back, don't give up, go for it, face your demons, I promise you won't regret it. GOOD LUCK.

Shirley Basingstoke, Hampshire

i have a terrible fear of any dentists even in the street i am interested in anne from liverpools comments about the sedation clinic and wondered if she could tell us more . i have loads of workl that needs doing and as a state registered nurse am embarressed about the fear i feel from cath runcorn

cathconneely@hotmail.com runcorn, cheshire

I love your site and find it to be a wonderful resource. Thank you for taking the time to put it all together.

cottauk , NA

Greetings All! I have been visiting this website and gathering strength, hope and understanding for the past 5 years. I have had some REALLY bad experiences in my quest to heal my NUMEROUS DENTAL problems. I am happy to report, that I have FINALLY found a dentist that I LOVE! He has been brutally honest with me but at the same TIME acknowledging the COURAGE I have had to muster to make the first appointment with him! This man DOES NOT JUDGE ME and DOES everything in HIS POWER to make me FEEL LIKE A WORTHWHILE PERSON! I am praying to GOD that I will FINALLY after 46 years find a resolution to all of my dental problems and have a FRIEND whom I can call upon if other problems occur. AM HOPING THAT ALL WHO READ THIS FIND A DENTIST LIKE MINE! After 46 years, I have become VERY cynical....I am so happy to have found a dentist who REALLY cares about ME

Jan Prescott, AZ

I love your site and find it to be a wonderful resource. Thank you for taking the time to put it all together.

Scotie ,

Thank you all for being here. I am crying as I write this. I desperately need to dental work of all types and am so ashamed that I cannot seek the treatment I need. I am a strong, well educated person, in the health field and am very committed to dealing with this situation. Any e mails of support, information, referrals will be most appreciated.

Thank you all for being there.

L1ndagt@aol.com

linda new york city, united states

Can anyone please recomend a dentist who will not only understand my phobia but not ridicule the state my teeth are in. I am desperate for help as my front teeth are slowly crumbling and my back teeth need help. I have searched web sites for local dentists who might help me but to no avail. the yellow pages are no help as at least half state that they offer gentle dentistry but what does that mean? Who can i trust?

Ruth Bournemouth, Dorset

I would just like to comment on how useful and informative I have found this website. It is by far one of the most informative and easy to use websites on the web. It is nice to find a website that allows easy movement to and from areas and easy to follow instructions. As a teacher I am always looking for websites for students to use in their PE lessons. this website has gone past my expectations and my pupils now find it an invaluable resource. a credit to the site thank you.

Pabolito ,

Wow! cool site, nice design! lots of usefull information! will visit it often!:)

Cromat ,

fantastic site.. connected with alot of what was being said. lots of info and user friendly site... :)

dawn rochford cork city, southern ireland

Its such a help to realise that there are other people going through the same as me....especially when you read the success stories. im desperate to start the process and take the first step as im so fed up of hiding my smile and living with so much pain but i need the reassurance of going to a recommended dentist in the west yorkshire area...if anyone has any thoughts please post them as i will check back regularly. Finally good luck to everyone who has found there way onto this site

Nick wakefild,

I must admit that I found this site by mistake but this is a great site!!! I wish more people will invest their time to build sites like this one. Thank you

Enebeth ,

Wow! cool site, nice design! lots of usefull information! will visit it often!:)

Richard ,

i used to love going the dentist when i was younger and had braces i have looked after my teeth, i am now 25 and when i get tooth ache i shake at the thought of going to the dentist, when i get there i cry , i have an abcess under one of my back teeth and it has been there for more than 6 mnths, i have got a referal for the royal were i am going to ask can i have general anaesthetic because i don't think i could bear to stay awake as the tooth has been snapped down to my gum line by a dentist in my area hence the abcess, has anyone on here been to the royal in liverpool and had general anaesthetic and can anyone tell me what the sedation is like if you stay awake, i am that scared of the dentist that if someone came in and said if you let me take one of your limbs and never have tooth ache again it would be like winning the lottery.
if anyone wants to reply contact salleyman3@hotmail.com

lindsey merseyside,

What a fantastic web site! I am actually not alone of being scared of attending the dentist beginning to think i was way some friends and family talk so calmly about going as if its nothing!!! I have been sitting here in tears reading stories that I could have written myself. I have not yet got to the stage ot going to the dentist, I am to ashamed more than scared of the treatment. My teeth are a mess bits missing etc so embarassing!! Anyhow, can anyone advise me of a VERY sympathetic dentist in the North Ayrshire area.

Jo , Ayrshire

I first looked at this website a year ago. I needed all sorts doing to my teeth and lived in pain. With support from the site I went to my dentist who firstly assessed what needed doing. I was then referred for sedation. Many people say it is not the answer to overcoming dental phobia but who cares? It worked for me. I have had lots of work done, and I have lost several teeth, that needed to come out. But next year I am getting a bridge and havin some veneers, so I can smile again! I 100% recommend sedation -trust me you won't feel a thing and afterwards you won't een remember you have been to the dentist! For anyone in the Liverpool area, I went to the Sedation Clinic and it was fantastic!

Anne, Liverpool.

Anne Liverpool, Merseyside

I am still trying to overcome my fears of dentists. I haven't been to a dentist since I was at junior school, over 50 years ago. Just over 2 years ago, I had to have emergency brain surgery to clear away an abcess caused by rotten teeth, but I still haven't been able to overcome the fear. Does anyone know of an extremely compassionate dentist around my area whould be able to help. Many thanks

Tony, Paignton, Devon ,

I am terrified of dentists i shake ifeel faint and sick i have even on a few occasions cried at the thought of going i need to try to conquer this as i really need treatment

cath conneely runcorn, cheshire

Andy and various people who no longer frequent this site got me there. Cindy Fiedler, Theresa Blackmore, all long vanished from here, but they were the ones years back who helped me. More recently, Donna and Cait. Everyone who comes to this place has something to say and some pearl of wisdom to impart. I would not have made it without it..

Jackie ,

THANKYOU,THANKYOU, THANKYOU.

T , NORTH YORKS

This website has helped me with an action plan to identify my fears, prioritise them and then make contact with the local Community Health Service who run NHS Dental Clinics for people whith phobias.

I am claustrophobic and the design of the bed type couches as opposed to the olde chairs where you could sit up, makes me panic and I cannot breathe.
Ten years ago my dentist got reaaly angry with me even though I explained how I felt and almost threw me out! I haven't bee to a dentist since and now need treatment before the pain becomes too unbearable.
The local clinic has a waiting list and you need a refrral from your GP which I have now asked for. The clinic will let you go in a few times to get comfotable and ensure that the chair is in the right position for treatment for you. Fantanstic! I will post another note when I have had my treatment.
My husband also needs a sympathetic dentish so he might try this too if I am OK with it!

Why not give it a try?

Linda , Milton Keynes

I too was very teary reading people's stories about overcoming their fears, as I can relate to them myself. Thank you.

Melissa Perth, Australia

cant belive i've found this site, wish i had years ago. i'm half way through 8 two hour appointments to sort my teeth. i really thought i was the only person with teeth so bad, my shame and embarrasment consumed my life. found a fab dentist, and have to say have suffered no pain at all in tratment so far. only 2 months til i can smile and live again. good luck to you all, once you have made the hardest step of seeing a recommended dentist for the 1st time, your 90% there. ija :)

muffty northants, uk

This site has helped me make a very big decision - after 10 years of avoiding the dentist I finaly went last night. My Dentist was amazing she was so nice and caring (a big difference from the nasty one I had in my chilhood and teenage years!) I have to have two wisdom teeth out and 6 fillings I was expecting alot worse!!! But hey I've made that first step and its all thanks to this site.

Sarah Perth,

I thought I was alone in feeling the way I did but I have just read stories I could have written. I've just been for a consultation (no treatment) for the first time in 8 years, most of which I've been in pain, often severe. It was hard - I shook and cried throughout - but I'm so glad I managed it. I need a lot of treatment, but I think I've reached the 'turning point'. I want my life back and I want my smile back; I think acknowledging that is the biggest step.

D , Kent

i really enjoyed reading the posts.i just had 6 teeth pulled.i got so afraid my sister in law had to look for me.yesterday i took off.she found me at my apartment.i get so stubborn.when i have to go and see a oral surgan.well you got a neat website keep the good work

mari lee uniongrove, racine county wisconsin

after seeing all the people on this site who have the same problem as I do I feel that I may be able to make that first step and call the dentist. It will be the first time in 20 or so years. thanks to this site I think I may be able to go that last mile.wish me luck

pat waterbury, connecticut

Hello to all on the group. I hope my last message was received alright and that the info on Brighton has been of use to someone. Do let me know how you got on.

Now taken the brave step of joining a new practice in Chertsey (today!). The dentist seems very nice, and I am booked for some gum treatment next Monday. I pray that he is as good and kind as the guy in Brighton was.

Best wishes to all,

Simon

Simon Chertsey, Surrey (United Kingdom)

Amazing site that makes me think there is a chance i can finally be happy. im 25. must be over 10years since dentists. im not registered anywhere doctors or dentists. i really cant imagine teeth worse...and something that wasent mention was its not just the fear...its the thought that i cud never afford to get them fixed. i may be going to doctors/dentists soon...and hope this will lift the depression and lack of self condfidence i have endured for so long...thanks you have helped me more than i can say.

Mike , UK

What a fabulous website. I have today seen my 8 year old son endure more than 30 minutes of treatment in the dentist's chair. I was so shamed by him that I sopke to the senior partner in the practice and asked for a place on his waiting list. That was Dutch courage - I came home and looked for more help and found it on this site. I have an awful dental history , combined with a swallowing disorder, which makes the dentist the most depressing appointment of the year. So much so that I have skipped a year. I plan to have a discussion session wiht my new dentist and ask for the help (even sedation) that I need. I am so encouraged by this site - it makes me realise that I am not alone.

Penny Chesham, Bucks

What a fantastic web site! I am actually not alone!!! I have been sitting here in tears reading stories that I could have written myself. I have not yet got to the stage ot going to the dentist, I am to ashamed more than scared of the treatment. I barely have any back teeth left, have 4 top front false teeth and the list goes on - i am 31!! Anyhow, can anyone advise me of a VERY sympathetic dentist in the Kent area. I think I would need to be under a general anaesthetic just to be examined!
Many thanks

Ali Kent,

This site is fantastic. I never realised that there were others out there who felt just the same as me! Andy-you are awesome. To use your own experiences to offer so much help to others takes a truly special human being. I go to a dentist who specialises in dental phobics. Next time I see her I am going to take this website address with me. She may have heard it already but if she hasn't I will ask her to pass it on to her other patients.

a Coventry, w.midlands

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Vanessa Germany, Germany

Hi,

An interesting site. However I am one of those with an avid FEAR of dentists, dentistry and all things drill like.

Why is this ? I have much pain and need to see someone. The stories of my Ma and the string round the kitchen doorknob put the fear of God into me. As a youngster I wasn't afraid of ghosts and ghouls, but of string and the door slamming. This has remained with me throughout my adult life.

Interested to know if this is common. This year I learnt to floss but believe this is what has exacerbated my pain as I may have cut my gums.

Z-G
zupergirly33@hotmail.com

Zupergirly London, Kent, England

Wow I found this site last night and although I am not keen on the dentist I am not as bad as some people. The people on here have real phobias and I am proud of all those who have made it to the dentist.

Me, have not been in 6 years but have to go today as in complete agony with possible an infected tooth. Will get though the door no problem but scared of the treatment.

Ally Greater Manchester, UK

Im 32, and I only have a few teeth left intact.I have really done a great job hiding my issue, nobody but my wife knows how bad I am. I have broken teeth, rotten teeth, its horrible, Im sitting here swelled up now.Im so ashamed I shake when I think about going to the dentist.Television acts as a suppresant, I think, because every two or three commercials is about how white they can make them, and all I care about is keeping them in my mouth. I cant take this anymore, after 10 years of constant pain, digging one my OWN TEETH out, and several other completely ridiculous episodes, I'm going tomorrow to end this, dont live like this, folks, it's nothing less than hell on earth, and I dont ever want anybody to get in the shape I'm in.Get help, and wish me luck tomorrow, I'm gonna need it...Im already coming up with excuses not to go...

Steve Dont want you to know, Dont want you to know

I am a dental hygienist. although i work at a practice which helps nervous/phobic patients i still get goosebumps when i read comments like these here. its wonderful you are getting support. i wish to add 2 hints for those getting back in the saddle.
1) as a nervous patient, if you wish, you can explain to the receptionist that you are nervous/ phobic and wish ONLY to come for a consultation. this will then involve an examination only, and poss xrays. NO treatment may be carried out without your consent, you will get an idea of what work needs to be done, costs, and whether or not you feel the dentist is right for you. there is no obligation for treatment. it may be very stressful coming for the first appointment, esp if it has been a long time and it is best to know in advance NO treatment will take place. one step at a time.
2)i am frequently told by patients that they are ashamed of their mouths and as well as their dental phobia they have been ashamed to let anyone see their mouths. please dont be! our jobs is to look in mouths, we have been trained to deal with complicated/extensive problems, this is the career we chose. i personally love being able to help someone turn their mouth around, the more advanced the situation the better the result in comparison!
If i sound a little evangelical, its because i am, and im not alone. a smile is what you greet the world with, and you have a right to be confident with your smile!
best of luck to you all

Rachel , Kent

Greatwebsite!Ienjoyedbrowsingthroughit.

YanaDimitrova none, TX

It's great to find a site like this and to know you are not
alone.
It would be nice to see dentists visting the site - and taking note- it might help them to understand and support patients better.

melanie , south west England

Wow what a wonderful site, Im glad Im not the only one out there with this fear, last week half my tooth fell out, I hadnt been to a dentist since I was about 15 (Im 23 now) all my memorys of them included being 6 knocked out with gas and not waking up for 5 hours, the pain of the needle when I was 15, the smell :( but today I tool my first step into that dreaded place, my new dentist is an angel, she cleaned up my teeth, told me I needed a root filing done, put in a tempary one for me and refered me to another dentist so I can be sedated for the big treatment, but I had to promise to go back to her in 6 months :). I cant say Im looking forward to the big appointment, but knowing Im not going to hardley remember anything is calming me down, and after admiting to my boyfriend how scared I am he has become very supportive and will be there when I come around. Heres to the future of my soon to be healthy teeth :)

Annxxx

Ann Middlesbrough, UK

Thank you for putting such wonderful ideas in my head on how I could actually better myself if I got over my phobia and went to the dentist...You all have given me some hope xoxoxo

Carolyn Cleveland, OH

Hey all, thank you everyone this website has really helped me for, i havent been to a dentist in a year or more and i have been really scared and without thsi website i would never have gone today, my fear of the dentist has calmed down a little so i want to thank you all for that

Isobel xx :)

Isobel New York,

Love the site. It has helped me to take those first steps in sorting out my dental problem which in turn will change my life.

Emma , Berkshire

need to find someone in upper new york state that understands my phobia. I know i am not the only one out there but still doesn't help find someone that can help! How do you find someone?

wanda , new york

I'll be the first from the other side of the world to say your site is great! It has been wonderful talking to people of a like mind and to learn I'm not alone. I'm the only one in my family with a dental phobia so its nice to have people to talk to who understand. Its helped me a lot. Thank you!
Lynda
opiki2002@yahoo.co.nz

Lynda Palmerston North, New Zealand

This site is like an answer to prayer. I've had "problems" with dentist from before I can remember and it's resulted in my teeth decaying to the point I would miss work due to the pain. I went to the dentist and he told me that I would have to have 10 root canals along with crowns and that it would be close to $12,000 and suggested that I get them pulled. Unfortunately I agreed and now I've had a total of 11 teeth pulled and I'm only 24. This website is awesome and I intend on visiting often. It's nice to know that I'm not alone.

Steph , Iowa

Great site. Yes we all have a fear of something, I went to the dentist yesterday for the first time in half my lifetime. Admittedly, the nasty bits are still to come but I have concluded I wasn't scared I was just stubborn about the matter and challenge anyone to ask such questions of themselves. I have a story to tell and I am willing to share it with dentists, nervous patients or anyone else who writes to this address to ask for it; tamoof@yahoo.co.uk

Richard ,

I found this site quite moving. As a dentist I am of course very aware of patients understandable fears. It was nice to see the support given by truely empathatic people.
peter

peter clark eye, suffolk

Great site, after 20 years of being terrified and ashamed of not being able to smile I lost a front tooth ( 1of only 2 left at the front ) and my grandson made a comment , it was only then that I knew this was it. I found a dentist who works for the nhs trust ( who is a childrens dentist) and who had the time to devote to me, and it worked, at last I can see an end to the way I used to feel and look.
It has not been easy but I know that if I can do it anyone can. Good luck to all.

Neil Liverpool,

Yesterday I had dental treatment at Winton dental centre, situated in Moordown Bournemouth.
I had a root canal and front cavity filled. I was given IV sedation and my memory of the visit is very hazy. I am so proud of myself---- I've done it!
I have never met such kind dentists and will be going back for several more treatments. I am not cured but,I can handle it. This dentist is a NHS practice and I can't recommend them enough!

Maureen T. Poole,, Dorset.

just been to brilliant dentist piers lambert in brightinsea . i took my daughter there for her fist ever trip to the CHAIR! SHE LOVED IT! seems like i am going back every six months with her . nice to be able not to have to bribe your child to go she say"s he is the best but she still hates the mouth wash ha ha ha

mark batt+megan batt maldon, essex

I have just found this site after much panic at the realisation that I can no longer out off my (now twenty year)wait to visit the dentist. I know that I need many fillings and extractions but am terrified. Can'tI just do it myself??! I tried the database search for someone sensitive, but there was no-one in my area. Can anyone help?

claire t swindon, wiltshire

Through visiting this site,i have now been to a dentist.
He is one of the best, Piers Lambert from Brightlingsea Nr Colchester Essex. You can find him on the search facility on this site. He has carried out a Root Canal, and some fillings.I am now half way through having a crown done.I now do not mind going to a dentist. So anyone out there in Suffolk/Essex who is scared, PLEASE try him. He is very patient and explains things to you very well and most importantly, he does not hurt or judge you on the state of your teeth. The rest of his team are also excellent.

Marian Ipswich, UK

This is a wonderfull site.I have dental nursed for over 13 years now, and have found that giving patients the time and space they need can help them overcome that dreadfull fear of the man in the white coat.Half the battle is to find a dentist who will give you that time.The first step is to make that first phone call,ask to be booked in at the end of a session,the last apointment in the morning or the last apointment of the day. This way the dentist is not rushed for time. He can sit down and talk to you and you can take things at your pace,this is common practice where i work.If you have any questions or i can help you in any way, i try to log on to the meeting room at 1oclock on week days(lunch hour} if i cant help, my boss will. Good luck all out there. Hope to here from you soon

cheryl , london

Having real difficulty finding an NHS dentist in my area who is prepared to see a phobic patient. Does anyone have any suggestions. Would be really grateful.

Jackie Ashley North Finchley, London England

A very helpful site. Thank you.

Brian London,

What a relief.Other people who understand my fears .I really need to visit a dentist after years of neglect .My breath is bad - Dentyl ph mouthwash and toothpaste helps ,I have many cavities andone is in front tooth and most noticable .I could not find a search for my town/area on your site .I am desperate to find the right dentist and sedation .PLEASE HELP!

Maureen T. poole, Dorset England

I firtst posted a message on this website back in April of this year. At the time I never thought I would even get through the door of a dentist surgery never mind actually sit in that chair. But here I am 8 months later and I have completed my treatment. My first appointment I was a wreck, I never slept the night before and did not stop crying until I left the surgery. All the staff at the surgery were very sympathetic, the nasty smell and taste was not there. I had about 7 or 8 fillings, root canal and a couple of extractions of roots that had been left from rotten teeth. I never thought I would ever say this but it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be! I thought all my teeth would have to be pulled but it is amazing what they can do.
For the drill I listened to my mini disc player and altered the volume as the noise got worse, I listened to Dido which also helped me relax.
I am not saying I am cured of my phobia but after 12 years of not going and the progress I made from that 1st appointment, I am very proud of myself. And quite honestly, if I can do it you all can too. Good luck to everyone, Jo

Jo-Ann Edinburgh, Scotland

hi there, found your site thru a search engine, its good, its nice to know that there are other people out there with this phobia too, was beginning to think it was just me!

Had the phobia for 22 years now, been to therapists, dental hospital, many different dentists, none sympathetic towards the phobia. I need help real bad. my front teeth are tingly, and loose, i'm panicking that they'll fall out. but i'm too scared to visit a dentist. I'm afraid of everything in a dentist surgery, dentist, the room, the smell, the chair, drill, everything - leads to panic attacks. but i really need to do something.

any advice would be greatly appreciated.

thanks

Jay Selby, North Yorkshire UK

Hello Andy, respect for your application and further much success with your page. I began my page against dentalfear in January 2000. There must be a solution for all !
Best greets for the future,
Cindel

#online translates into the English#

Cindel C. , Bavaria Germany

I am so impressed to find such a great site, I never realised how many people like me suffered a dental phobia, mine started when I was about 10 yrs old ( I am now 38 ), I had a tooth out and a filling with no injection, the dentist said as they were baby teeth it would not hurt, like heck, I remember being held down by 2 assistants and being shouted at by the dentist, after that I didn't go to one for years, until my mum persuaded me to go to hers, luckily after all that time, I didn't need anything done, so apart from the fear of getting there, I had no problems, until he decided to do a major clean and hurt me a lot, when I complained he said it had to be done, as I would lose all my teeth by the time I was 40 if I didn't start looking after them, well, that did wonders for my fear, and I didn't see him again, I then found a very good one that did sedation, so that got me through one crown and one root filling, but then he went private, so I had to change again to my present one, who is kind, patient and totally understanding to my fears, he doesn't do sedation, but in a way I am pleased, as it makes me face my fears, I can't yet get through it on my own, I use lavender oil and take Bachs rescue remedy, I am just hoping this will be enough in 2 weeks time, when I face my real fear and have a tooth out, but at least I know, I can totally trust my dentist,
Philippa

Philippa Ipswich, Suffolk UK

I am very pleased to discover this site. I have been a dental phobic all my life. It's comforting to read the notes posted by so many others who have a similar fear.

Cindy Jones Lubbock, Tx USA

PLEASE KEEP UP A VERY WORTH WHILE SITE. BLESSINGS ECHOS FROM THE LIGHT

echos gloucester, gloucestershire england

It is always nice to find sites like this, people helping people. For my own problem (fear of injections) I have found hypnosis has helped me to have 10 years of neglect repaired by an excellent dentist in the Oxford area. If anybody would like info about what is involved drop me a line and I will attempt to offer support and answer your questions. Good luck DB :p

David Barber Oxford, OXON United Kingdom

Wow, what an excellent website. I have been afraid of the dentist for years (about 10yrs) and still can't get over my phobia. It has got worse as I've got older and has spread to other things to do with health. I'm usually put to sleep now for anything that needs doing but this obviously isn't a solution. I will carry on visiting this site from now on to perhaps speak to other people like myself.

Alison Coventry, Warwickshire England

Awesome! i hope i can get through my phobia :(

i really am scaredddddddddd

Scott Barrow in Furness, Cumbria United Kingdom

What a wonderful site! It really is a comfort to know I'm not the only one out there with such a strong fear of the dentist, because for the longest time I was convinced I was. Going to the dentist was an ordeal for me for about as long as I can remember, and due to health problems as a child, whenever I went I always needed quite a bit of work done. My dentists were cold and unsympathetic to my fears and so that didn't help the situation any. Once I left my parents' home and moved to New York, dentists became a thing of the past. I, like a fool, vowed I'd never visit one again. This vow was short-lived as after about 4 years of this one of my molars infected badly and I had to make an appointment with a dental surgeon. He was a wonderful man and did a brilliant job in extracting the tooth, but after that was all over with, I resumed my old habits. However, about five years later, which brings us to this past Christmas, I developed another wicked infection, this one in a wisdom tooth, and it spred. I was sicker than hell but still I put off treatment for as long as humanly possible until my husband made the appointment for me. Now HE had questions, ones I had to answer, and for the first time I had to face my problem. Well, to finish the story, I am now attending a speacialist, a brilliant, kind man, and while much work needed to be done and there's still more in the future, I think I've finally kicked this fear. I only wish I'd known about the existence of this site sooner, as I know it would've made things easier for me. Cheers! ~Triona~

Caitriona , New York

Wow, what a great website. Trying to find a new dentist in the Warrington area. Haven't been for 3 years but need LOADS of work doing. Not feared of injections but it's everything else involved in being in that chair that bothers me - trying to phone round and find sympathetic dentist to take me on but also can't afford mega fees but know that the majority of my teeth need working on. Help!

Julie Warrington, Cheshire UK

Great to see that ther are people out ther like me. I gag whenever a dentist tries to do treatment. 20 yrs ago in Oxford I was part of a free programme run by a psychologist which enabled me to have treatment for many years. However recent events have meant that the phobia has returned and is getting worse. I could with a refresher course!! but don't know where to go !!!

annie p sheffield, England

Can any one help - I'm very new to the Huntingdon area and am desperate to get my teeth seen to I have a great fear of the dentist and have had a broken tooth for the best part of a year, I keep using temp fillings but enough is enough - prevously I have had to go to the dental hospital and have them pull my teeth rather than have the work done.

Cammy Huntingdon, Cambridgeshire

Andy,

Hi mate,

THe site is looking good, since I last visited the layout is simpler and a lot quicker.

keep it up,

Peace out

Adrian

Adrian Jaye Slough, Berkshire UK

My Mum came across an article about dental phobia in a newspaper and admitted to me that she wanted to see a dentist but was terrified as she hadn't been for over twenty years. She was too afraid to even phone the number in the article so I did it for her. Andy, you are so brilliant, I talked to you for about half an hour and you were so enthusiastic and helpful and encouraging, nothing was too much trouble for you. We cannot thank you enough. You recommended we try Piers Lambert in Brightlingsea so we made an appointment where Mum could just go in and have a look around and sit in the chair if she felt up to it. This dentist is fantastic, in fact everyone at the surgery is fantastic. Nothing was too much trouble, they were patient and sympathetic and even arranged the appointment at a time when no dental work was going on so that she felt more at ease. The appointment went well and Mum went back a week later, still nervous as she was convinced she would have to have all her teeth out. She couldn't have been more wrong. She had two fillings and a good clean-up and it cost next to nothing. Piers made her feel she was in control the whole time and there was no suggestion whatsoever that she should feel ashamed or ridiculous. Since then we've recommended Piers to several other people, and have been astounded by how many people out there feel the same way about dentists. I'm so glad that your site exists, as Mum would never have done it without you. We honestly cannot express our gratitude enough, I am grateful to you for giving my Mum the confidence to smile again. Thank you so much.

Donna Goodall Woodbridge, Suffolk England

It hard to belive that others have the
same problem i do, dental phobia, i am terrified by the time i actually get in the chair to be worked on, i sure wish i could find a dentist in the cleveland ohio area who understands dental phobia ?
maybe there is one out there who will read this and contact me ?
good luck to everyone out there were nto alone.

richard allsbrook cleveland, ohio uda

Just want to say what a great site this is.Although haven't been here for a while,it was here when i needed it most.I'm now so happy that ive at last managed to go to the dentist and last time i went was told my teeth were all ok..To anyone who is scared i know how u feel,but please don't give up is worth it in the end.But only go when u feel ready.Good luck!!

kas , uk

What a relief to find a site like this, for years the embaressment of thinking it was just me. My job dictates that i must be dentally fit, the lies and methods of shying away from the dentist have started to be noticed and other people think its funny that this person in a responsible job cannot bring himself to go to the dentist. Ive read through the list of other sufferers and i can most probably relate to those fears. I feel more anger towards those who try and enforce treatment. I know they have a job to do, luckily my wife supports me as do my family but like that Dr Mike has said each fear is the fear of that person. I know it sounds stupid but if my children need to go, the sound of a drill the smell makes me feel sick.I dont know how i'm going to get on but i wish you all the best.
ollie.

ollie hameln, germany

This is a wonderful service, however I am stunned that there are no dentistry professionals in my area listed. I have looked unsuccessfully for someone to help and am in pain and at a loss for where to turn to find someone in my area who will use whatever means necessary to work on my problem.

Thanks for your site...

K. Rowe Chicago area, Cook County/Illinois USA